About self-confident

About self-confident

“self-confidence is the starting point of all achievement -small or big it is worthwhile to harness its tremendous power”.

Barbara was married to Joe. Joe was running a shop in the near-by vicinity. They had two little children, who were being looked after by Barbara. Both were leading a peaceful life until one fateful day Joe met with a fatal accident. After the death or her husband, Barbara felt terribly nervous. She had nervous. She didn't know how to handle the business affairs. She had never dealt with if before. Suddenly, she felt she lacked self-confidence to manage the show. She believed that she could never be confident. Confidence to her meant having a strong personality which, according to her, was either by birth or built up because of encouragement at home during childhood. At this point, she felt completely shattered, and that she had other option but to remain unconfined forever.

Mike was working as the head of a marketing division in a private firm. He was a dedicated executive and well versed with functions and activities of his department. He had the entire official data
and information at his fingertips. As such, he was in food books of the senior manager.

One day, during a meeting with the senior management, the Managing Director asked him to make a presentation on performance and achievement of his department. Mike was very happy to hear this as he had come well prepared. But his happiness did not last for too long. His managing Director insisted that he should make the presentation in Hindi as organization. Mike soon started feeling butterflies in his stomach. He did not know what to do, as he was not good at speaking Hindi. Despite having all the data and presentation, and he didn't know hoe to swim. He was not confident of facing the situation. For the first time during his career he was experiencing nervousness. Soon he found his legs were shaking and his hands were trembles.

Such incidents are not uncommon as these take place everyday, everywhere, and everyone. The
incidents could be major or minor in nature. Whatever may be your business,whatever may be your Age, the hard fact is that you need confidence. Self-confide is so basic a need for success and happiness in life that leading a good life without it becomes almost impossible.

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